6 principles for building meaningful relationships

6 principles for building meaningful relationships


6 principles for building meaningful relationships
6 principles for building meaningful relationships

Others are the mirrors of ourselves.

 When we don't want to see our reflection in the other person, the relationship becomes painful. So, above all, you need to work on yourself to make any relationship work. Sure, you also have to be totally clear about the type of person you want to be with and set your standards.
Once you meet someone you love (and meet your standards and values), things will go smoothly. Just like anything else in life. No matter how long a relationship lasts, you can enjoy the experience and learn from it to grow faster.Every relationship aims to teach us valuable lessons about ourselves. Not all lessons are happy and easy. But all are important. Therefore, we will see in this article 6 basic principles to make any relationship succeed.

1. Love yourself first

1. Love yourself first
1. Love yourself first

I apologize for your frustration, but if you don't like yourself, your partner won't help you with that. On the contrary, it will reflect your lack of self-love and self-confidence. Many people create relationships for the wrong reasons. Like being lonely,And they want someone to appreciate them because they cannot value themselves. But as long as you want your partner to make you feel good about yourself, you push him away because you are far from loving yourself. The other person will never be the source of your happiness and love.
You have to find this inside yourself, regardless of whether or not you are in a relationship. This may be a harsh lesson, but it also gives you internal freedom. If you want to establish a relationship,You should focus on being the source of love for yourself first. If you don't like yourself, you can't expect someone to love you completely. Things are not going this way.

2. Do not lose yourself in the person you love

2. Do not lose yourself in the person you love
2. Do not lose yourself in the person you love
When we find a partner, we feel so happy that it is so easy to forget what we want and need. We may bargain for more time with them and for the relationship to last longer. But this is very dangerous for any relationship.When we give up our hobbies, goals, and friends so we can spend more time with or partner to please, we make the relationship interconnected.
This will not work or last. It is imperative to continue working on your dreams and have a 'special time' where you do what you love and recharge your energy, then feel happy and share this happiness with the one you love. Therefore, this is very important for both of you.

3. Take responsibility for your own mess

3. Take responsibility for your own mess
3. Take responsibility for your own mess
Each person has different experiences, beliefs, effects and wounds. But it is strange that many of us expect that once we are in a relationship, we can hand over what we hold to the other person, and it will help us carry it. So we blame the other person when things don't go as we want,Or when we are not satisfied. But the other person is not the source of your problems. Yes, it helps and carries the weight, sometimes very well, but it brings back any untreated wounds so you can edit and treat them yourself.
We have all received some negative treatment from family, school, community or ex-partners. But the pain does not go away on its own because you have to deal with it and leave it consciously. Otherwise, he will stay there and continue to attract similar painful moments until you choose to recover from it.


4. Be like an open book

4. Be like an open book
4. Be like an open book
Although there are many tips on how to maintain ambiguity and attractiveness - if you want to create a lasting relationship based on trust, forget this advice. Another thing that kills relationships is the assumptions. When you don't know exactly what you want, think about, and need,Your partner will always assume things. This leads to misunderstanding. vice versa. If it doesn't tell you exactly how things are going, it is normal for your mind to go into some negative scenarios. Good communication is vital.
Always say exactly what you want and feel. Even if you do not know. When you feel upset without any apparent reason, instead of responding to "nothing" when your partner asks how you are, say; "I feel bad, but I'm not sure why. This feeling started two days ago, but we have nothing to do with it.Please, give me some time to find out." This is more accurate than saying "nothing" only even if you are not sure what is going on.

5. Do not try to own the one you love

5. Do not try to own the one you love
5. Do not try to own the one you love

Your partner is not yours. Even if you have been together for 30 years. Nobody belongs to anyone. The truth is that we are born alone and we will leave this world alone. So the only person you will be with, all the time, is you.
Your partner also has his own hobbies and dreams. Likewise, he must follow his heart and do what he loves. Any control (hidden or not) is like poison for both of you. We all have free will, meaning that not everyone will always behave as you wish.If it exceeds your criteria, you should consider whether you are willing to continue but do not attempt to imprison him because in the end he will not stay with you.

6. Support your loved one

6. Support your loved one
6. Support your loved one

Be the biggest fan of your partner. When happy, your relationship will be more comfortable and supportive. If you love your partner, you want him to do what makes him happy and for this a supportive environment must be created.The beautiful thing is that when he works to fulfill their dreams, this is the time for you to do what you love as well.


A meaningful relationship will always enrich your life. However, things will not always be satisfactory. Some days will be worse than others, and some days will give you memories of a lifetime. As long as you understand your relationship and partner, everything will gradually be put into place.You will see that it was simple from the very beginning. In this lies the essence of the meaningful relationship.



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